Too Many Losses

My DMIL, Ruby Blank, passed away just over an hour ago, after a massive (and unexpected) stroke yesterday. Can't think. Exhausted. Likely won't be able to get to Vancouver for the funeral (she's Jewish; it'll happen SOON; Christmas is not a factor...). My son just arrived home for Christmas; my DD is on her way. My emotions are a strange mixture of joy and hurt and missing "Baba"....